Be careful not to be overly attached to outcomes as you may have the tendency to get in your own way rather than allowing to happen what wants or needs to happen. Don't let bad judgement or a lack of discrimination get in the way of doing or not doing what needs to be done, being unable to cut away those things that no longer serve you or are no longer needed or relevant to what you're trying to do, to become, or where you are trying to go. Be careful not to let impatience cause you to rush into something or do things before the time is right just to get it done or satisfy an urge; try to avoid giving in to the need for instant gratification. What you are afraid of and perhaps trying to avoid looking at deep down that needs to be dealt with ? Take time for reflection rather than always being so action oriented. Reflect on what needs to be done rather than simply doing without thinking or considering first and dealing the the consequences or picking up the pieces later. What are your priorities ? How are you using your energy ? A lack of courage or dedication may be what is getting in the way of you being able to deal with and overcome the obstacles, challenges, fears that overwhelm you and cause you to act in ways that are not beneficial or productive. Accept the need and importance of shortterm relationships rather than clinging on to relationships for longer than they serve their purpose in your life. Issues of trust and confidence may need to be dealt with. Examine whether you are being and acting in an authentic way, or simply in a way that is expected or demanded of you, or a way that is based in fear (the need for acceptance, validation, etc) rather than what is right and true to you. Examine your motives. Are you simply trying to dominate others ? Seek inward for the advice and guidance you need rather than turning to or relying so much on what they outside world has to say.